I was just thinking about the various men in my life. Then I thought about the men that I am still in contact with and how long I have had that relationship:

My father - 26 years. Sometimes by pure default.
Happygoth - 10 years. Grade 11? Holy shmit. Some times were more closer in the friends-area than others.
Skullet Man - Does this count? Just because we just started talking again on FaceBook. *frowns* Probably not. If we actually start to have real conversations, the year count would be at 7. He is the only ex(?) that I would consider talking to.
soullessflyer - 5 years. Strangly comfortable for never meeting. Or is it comfortable because of the distance?
My current love - 3 years. This will be our third summer together. 2 of everything else thus far. Sometimes insanely passionate, a few times merely co-habitating. Sometimes I could actually see us getting married. Sometimes I wonder what it would be like to pack it all away and move on. But, all relationships are like that, I suppose.

I think what starting this random thought was I was questioning myself if I am able (willing?) to keep people in my life. Expecially the male gender. I guess I don't give myself enough credit or faith in the matter.